After reflecting on my decision to stop pro-diaper fantasy facilitating, I realized a couple of pretty major things!
We're talking about how I let myself be taken advantage of, why it's not ok & why consent is important. This was a very hard realization to deal with & one that I want to talk openly about.
I always thought I was in control of my life & decisions but that wasn't the case. There are narcissistic people who took advantage of my kindness & manipulated me into taking part in things I wasn't fully aware of.
It's NOT OK to push yourself, your hidden agenda or your fetish on people who are not consenting to it; and it happened to me... A LOT. Because I did not set clear boundaries & I did NOT speak up when it was happening to me so I thought, by quitting, it would stop... and it didn't. I'm stopping all of that right now. I'm still slowly processing how this has affected me.
After reflecting on my decision to stop pro-diaper fantasy facilitating, I realized a couple of pretty major things! We're talking about how I let myself be taken advantage of, why it's not ok & why consent is important. This was a very hard realization to deal with & one that I want to talk openly about. I always thought I was in control of my life & decisions but that wasn't the case. There are narcissistic people who took advantage of my kindness & manipulated me into taking part in things I wasn't fully aware of. It's NOT OK to push yourself, your hidden agenda or your fetish on people who are not consenting to it; and it happened to me... A LOT. Because I did not set clear boundaries & I did NOT speak up when it was happening to me so I thought, by quitting, it would stop... and it didn't. I'm stopping all of that right now. I'm still slowly processing how this has affected me.
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